A Journey of an Attached Family: home birth, home school, home life and other holistic practices.
In dwelling, live close to the ground. In thinking, keep it to the simple. In conflict, be fair and generous. In governing, don't try to control. In work, do what you enjoy. In family life, be completely present. - Tao Te Ching -
It was the day to pick some greens for dinner. After five years of trying to DIY, our work finally paid off. We were all excited.
But as I opened the net around my vegetable garden, I screamed because I thought a snake was about to pounce on me. When it didn't, we discovered that the snake managed to get stuck in between the net and its esophagus was hanging out of its mouth. I prodded it with a stick and it was still very much alive.
We thought the Common Garter would die shortly, but after 24 hours it was still reacting to my prods - but much slower. I just could not bare to leave it to die a slow death, so I decided to end its life quickly.
My Kindergarten son was all for it, "Let's put it out of its misery! I'll give you an award Mama!"
Although as a Vegan, I have always taught our son not to kill animals, I didn't think much about his comment. So, I did what I had to do - quickly.
My son's response from behind a bush was a little scared, "Mama! I'm not watching! I'm not watching!"
Then proud, still behind the bush, "You are awesome Mama! You win a badge! An award! You're the bravest Mama!"
Then angry, walking back inside the house, "I don't want to see you anymore!!!"
Then with sad tears as he hides in the bathroom by himself, "You're not a good Mama!"
OH DEAR. What have I done?
After five minutes, he approached me a little calmer. I explained what happened but he still was clearly upset. He did not want to listen to what I was saying.
We used a journal he just created today during pretend play to work through his emotions and the snake situation. By writing to each other as other characters Murray (my son) and Lexie (me), my son was able to feel better about an emotional situation.
"Just released: The Lost Journal of Jones Murray and His Sidekick Lexie Jones"
Son wrote:
"Me and Lexie saw a skink today that was brown. We looked it up!
I was talking to a Lady Bug while Lexie was taking pictures of a Dragonfly!
Looked for wood for camp and saw an almost dead snake and..."
Son continued:
"...put it out of its misery! Draw Here: Dead, dead, dead and not buried!"
Mama wrote:
"Heck! Today, I, a Vegan, had to do the most horrible deed! I had to kill a fellow animal.
The snake had been in severe pain for 24 hours and was still alive! It's jaw was hanging out and broken.
I didn't know if the heart, lungs and body were still functioning. It was in clear pain and would never be able to eat again.
I got big clippers and cut its head off to put it out of its misery. I felt both good and bad.
Bad because I beheaded it. Good because it wasn't in pain anymore. It was the right thing to do."
Son wrote:
"The snake was caught in a net with its neck twisted."
Son wrote:
"At first I felt angry and stayed away from Lexie. But then I figured it was the right thing to do!
When I was angry, I wrote the first 4 to 5 pages before Lexie wrote her one page in my diary!
She is smart. She knows what to do always."
"PLAY" helped my son understand the situation.
But I kick myself as I write this... I could have handled it differently.
I decided to create a Night of Notables event for our local homeschool kids. Having had no luck attracting the older homeschool kids, I created Notables at Noon for the elementary kids at our local homeschool support group instead.
Last Fall, we had four kids who presented their notables including Christopher Reeve (project details here), Abraham Lincoln, Cleopatra and Harriet Tubman. It was a small group, but a good start.
This Spring, we had seven kids who presented their Notables including Emily Dickinson, St. Francis of Assisi, Angry Birds (not a Notable, but the little girl was adamant about presenting her passion and it was a wonderful addition to our event), Bruce Lee, William Shakespeare, Blackbeard, Anne Bonny and Mary Read. It was, as another mother pointed out, EXCELLENT. All the children were passionate and therefore confident speakers and very persuasive in their presentations. In fact, after seeing the younger set present, some older kids now also want to participate in our next Notables at Noon this coming Fall.
My favorite part of this Spring's Notables at Noon was watching all the kids crowd around the presenter and become interested in a new person as they watched their peer passionately talk about their Notable. Here is one photo which shows elementary children enthralled by the William Shakespeare presentation. This is but one photo. I watched the children throughout the event and they all had the same reaction to all the presentations. Still days after, the children continue to talk about what they learned from each other.
Why Do It?
A friend told me about her son's Night of Notables school experience. She remembers it as "one of my proudest moments as a mom... I was shocked!! My normally shy child was transformed into this ball of confidence. I think I cried!" I immediately thought of my own normally shy son. Night of Notables is usually a project for sixth graders and up, but I thought WHY NOT for the younger set? Some websites charge $100 for instructions on "how-to's" but after a lot of research, I created my own simple guidelines for my five year old and allowed his imagination to run wild about what to include in his project.
What To Do:
1. Ask your child WHO he wants to learn more about. It is important that the Notable is a person your child is passionate about.
2. Offer your child guidelines on what needs to be in his/her display. I have handouts available here that are suitable for elementary children. I find that elementary children need some sort of structure so that they understand what is expected from a presentation.
3. Once he/she understands what the presentation is about, let your child take over the project.
4. Offer help only when needed.
5. You and your child will discover that this project teaches not only the biography of a Notable, but history, geography, copy work, typing, printing, drama, literature, and so much more.
6. The best thing about the Notables Project, it's all about STEALTH SCHOOLING: YOUR CHILD WILL WANT TO DO ALL THE WORK!
7. Each child will have their own way of presenting. Some will want to read a whole essay, some will want to ad lib, mine preferred note cards with short questions to guide him during his presentation. Mine also wanted to make sure he was ready and asked to practice several times before the event.
8. WARNING: Notables at Noon is addictive. All the children in our past event are already looking forward to our next event in the Fall.
Some Examples: (note - the videos do not show how my son would have presented at the event, but rather what the presentation involved)
My five year old son loved every single minute he worked on his Johnny Depp presentation, as you can see here:
The same son almost a year later thoroughly enjoyed creating his Bruce Lee Presentation:
I am hoping to start a Notables at Noon homeschool movement! Share some photos and videos with me if you have a chance!
1. people in your gifted homeschool circle who believe highly in "unschooling" think you are "superschooling"
2. people thinkwhat you postabout your homeschool is "put on"
3. there is nothing "put on" about my homeschool because my blog is full of photos or videos to show you what we do
4. you find notes like this in your son's homeschool books:
3. Math is a daily must in your homeschool, your son says "I hate Math" for the longest time and then one day you find this written in your son's Math workbook.
"I love Mama School and Daddy's Rowing (Daddy's the P.E. teacher here) and Math!"
4. you realize that what works for your family... works for your family. That is the most important thing!
ended this school year more asynchronous than before: almost done with 2nd grade Math, writing and spelling at 3rd grade level, working on reading comprehension at 3rd and 4th grade level, reading fiction up to 7th grade level.
Secondly, what has worked for him this past year?
ART, CRAFTS and ART APPRECIATION
We introduced our son to real art materials, not just crayons and water color pencils. Art Appreciation followed our history curriculum. More information here.
FOREIGN LANGUAGE
Our son uses Rosetta Stone for Mandarin and the Elementary Spanish Program by the University of Northern Arizona. The former is more difficult to get through, my son is now only finishing up Level 1 Unit 2 after a year and a half. He also attends a Mandarin class once a week. The latter is easier to follow and he will be finishing up Grade 3-4. Rosetta Stone is better in that our son can actually conduct simple conversation in Mandarin, but he probably enjoys the easy presentation of his Spanish Program.
Our son loved the stories of MUD in Michael Clay Thomspon's Level 1. We are finishing up Music Hemispheres and plan to go on to Level 2 when we are done.
We follow Story of the World and Horrible Histories, which really enliven history through stories (the former) and a mix of comedy and horror (the latter) for my son.
MATH
My son doesn't really enjoy Math. He understands it and masters what is taught, but he is not motivated by the subject. That said, when we combine it with Brainpop Jr. or Brainpop videos, he is much happier during his Math lessons. We have tried Learning.com, Math-U-See and Right Start Math, but prefer Singapore Math the best... although we are still plugging along in Grade 2.
Using "magic tricks" or having him "teach" us also helps:
MOVING BEYOND THE PAGE (LITERATURE AND SOCIAL STUDIES)
We used the 6-8 year old curriculum and our son loved it. We decided to continue with MBTP and are now on their 7-9 year old package. I think it is a better fit. If I had to do it all over again, I would have advanced my son to the 7-9 year old package sooner. That said, he can still learn a lot from the process of literature studies (more information here). They also have SOCIAL STUDIES units, which is used alongside a literature study unit. I found this in my son's Amazing Weather MBTP Unit. If that doesn't 'sell' MBTP products, I don't know what will! ;)
MUSIC AND MUSIC APPRECIATION
Our son studies Drums (with a teacher who uses Echo games), Piano (at home) and Violin (with a teacher who uses the Suzuki method). Like Art Appreciation, Music Appreciation follows our history curriculum. More information here.
NIGHT OF NOTABLES
Our son studied Christopher Reeve and Bruce Lee this year. The video of the Bruce Lee project to be uploaded in May.
After introducing new material, our son needs time to PLAY in order to internalize and practice using this knowledge. More information here.
READING
Our son read 245 books this year.
His favorite books? Comics, graphic novels and fiction.
His favorite authors? Roald Dahl, Suzy Kline, Brian Selznick, J.K. Rowling, Chris Butler, Grace Lin, Eth Clifford, Marvel Comics, DC Comics, James Howe, Alvin Schwartz, Cornelia Funke.
This year, he also stopped asking me to read to him. They really grow up too fast!
SCIENCE
We used Building Foundations of Scientific Understanding for K-2. Although it seems like a lot of reading and preparation for the teacher, it isn't. In fact, it makes teaching science so much easier. After studying Earth Materials, our son's Rock Project just took off. More here.
Finally, LEGO has been introduced into our curriculum too.
SPELLING
All About Spelling Level 2 and 3. Easy to follow for our son. We didn't buy the manipulatives, just the teacher's book. I just dictated words 4 days a week.
WRITING
Writing Letters to Teachers to Thank Them
LEGO's Story Starter is a wonderful program for kids who like to building things before or after they tell a story. Our son enjoyed creating his first comic book with his new LEGO.
Nanowrimo's Young Writer's Program has a fantastic and FREE program for Kindergartners up. Our son would only write a word or sentence for me, but after using the Nanowrimo.org curriculum, he wrote a chapter a day. Our son had a blast writing his novel entitled Chisel and Fluffy.
San Francisco Book Review has a wonderful Kid Book Review Program. Your child gets to choose and keep the book that they review. Sometimes, they get to 'talk' to the author of the book they review too.
Writebrane.com's A Zombie Wrote My Essay is a really fun fiction writing program for kids who love a bit of horror. Writing lessons are taught by a comedic Vampire teacher, Mr. Butt, and his student, an equally funny and messy character. My son couldn't wait for 'Mr. Butt' lessons.
Preschool was a breeze for my son. He was always one step ahead of me. I was the one who wasn't ready for him to keep going and it seemed to me that I was always scrambling to get him books or information he was interested in.
Towards the end of his Kindergarten year (this school year), my son again showed me he was one step ahead of me. He did not want to rush through school. He wanted to be immersed in learning.
PROBLEMS LISTENING TO EACH OTHER
While before school took only 1 to 2 hours, it seemed to increase overnight to 4 hours with me rushing through it and with my son not enjoying it at all. I really wanted to be 'done' with school sooner so that we could have more time to play and relax afterwards. My son, on the other hand, wanted a lot more time to absorb new information.
One of the two dialogues we had one day:
While studying our Weather Unit, our son was writing in his weather log:
Me: Come on! You are done! Let's get back inside. Nothing else to write. We can have a break and we can do Math after the break.
Son: It's beautiful outside Mama. Look! All blue skies, no clouds, slight breeze. We could play hide and seek in this weather!
On the same day, after our lessons on Vikings,
Son: Let's play Vikings. You can be a Viking woman.
Me: Do I have to be Gunnhild? Can I just take photos of you? I don't want to play. We have so many things still to do.
Son: No Mama. You have to go on a Viking raid with me. My bed is the longship, ok?
After complaining to everyone that boys really don't LISTEN, it finally clicked. I thought my son didn't LISTEN to me, when actually I wasn't listening to HIM and his NEEDS. My mistake was not acknowledging that PLAY is important in my son's LEARNING! When I realised this, I allowed PLAY BACK INTO OUR HOMESCHOOL and what a difference!
Homeschooling now can last 5 to 6 hours a day, but I'm not the nag I hated and my son now immerses himself in his lessons. Overnight, he began to really cherish his homeschool days. When I recently asked my son what the best part of our homeschool days are, he didn't hesitate,
"All of it Mama! I'll never want to go to [another] school if you keep teaching me THIS way Mama!"
What do I do differently? After we study each subject, if my son wants to 'play' after his lesson, we PLAY. This play usually means reenacting everything we just studied. After a Math exercise on dollars and cents, for example, he wanted to play cashier: writing receipts, calculating how much I owed the cashier and giving me change. After a lesson on Storms, he pretended to see snow, sleet, hail and rain outside the window, and described the temperature and sky conditions each needs to form. It seems to me that these crucial times of PLAY are my son's way of TESTING his own knowledge. What a creative and subtle way to find out what he learned!
When I allowed my son time to play after each lesson, I learned that PLAY TIME is KEY in the PROCESS, IMMERSION and ENJOYMENT of his LEARNING. Plus, Mama isn't a sourpuss anymore. In fact, she gets to have lots of fun in the process too.
This year, we are trying to study music alongside our history and art lessons. I am finding it easy to simply youtube examples. Recently, we have been enjoying Viking music.
This one comes with different pictures to go with the Viking theme, which is nice:
We have also introduced Wagner and The Ride of the Valkyries. I wouldn't have thought a Kindergartner would enjoy it but my son will come running to me if he hears me playing this on the computer!
MUSIC LESSONS
I teach my son piano lessons at home and he gets to jam a lot on our keyboard, which he finds enjoyable. He can choose the 'voice' of each piece when practicing which makes his lessons a lot of fun for him.
Bridal Chorus (Trumpet)
Ode to Joy (with Drum Beats)
He takes drum and violin lessons with teachers. I don't have a video of him on the Violin, but here's an old one of him from last year jamming at home on the drums.
He also took part in the filming of his first music video with a Kindie Band. It was a really fun experience for him.
I find that in our homeschool, history and art appreciation go hand in hand. My son's history lessons come alive in looking at historical artifacts and in recreating them himself.
We also supplement with art lessons... not just any art lessons, but high quality art lessons that are not elementary. It is important to me that my son is able to use high quality material even at this introductory stage because I believe this helps involve him much more in the process and in instilling a greater appreciation for this craft. Our teacher this past semester simplified his college course for our homeschool coop. It was a wonderful experience for them that made a huge impact on how they understand and view art today.
Making Pigment
Making Fresh Tempera Paint
Making Fresh Oil Paints
Mixed Media Collage
Flemish Style of Painting (using charcoal, tempera and oils)
Our 6 year old loves the Moving Beyond The Page Literature curriculum. It is fun, creative and perfect for out-of-the-box thinkers. We recently started the 7-9 year old package with Betsy Bryar's Tornado.
Besides reading comprehension questions after each chapter, he has to write a a summary too. Even if my son reads at higher grade levels, he is learning how to WRITE better. Activities differ per lesson. Two of my son's favorite writing activities were:
Writing to someone about your dog (first draft)
Writing a myth about how turtles got their shells (first draft)
Just for my own homeschool teaching purposes, I have been using www.writingtester.com to guesstimate the grade level of my son's writing. For the first activity (above), my son's paragraph was rated a grade 3 level with a readable score of 74/100. For the second, he got a grade 6 with a lower readable score of 57/100. It helps make sure I am able to teach him how to edit his own writing to make his points clearer.
My son loved his literature work everyday. After we finished this Tornado unit, I found this in his copy of the book:
One of my kindergartner's fave subjects is history. We use both Story of the World and Horrible Histories with great success in our homeschool. Today, we spent a few hours creating a Viking Longship.
First, we read a book about Longships. Then, we watched this:
With the directions on the professor's page, our son created his own Longship with a little help from Mama:
Four hours is a long time to wait. As soon as we put the sail up, our little man immediately asked to test it! Success!
I aim to have history based craft days like this once a week.
We recently received our LEGO Story Starter. It is a BIG hit at our house!
Here's our son's first draft of his second novel (his first novel's draft is here). Enjoy!
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This is such a fun way to learn double digit multiplication, especially for elementary kids! It combines drawing dots and lines to solve the problem. My son enjoyed the videos he watched on Magical Math and created this video for homework today.
Some of our favourite things about doing this project: Himalayan Salt Lamp (I don't know about you... but it seemed to us the air was instantly purified), Looking at Rocks (wonderful little book complete with stickers for fun learning), Crystals R for Kids (teaches kids about programming crystals... neat if you believe that sort of thing!), Geodes Kit (complete with safety goggles), and gems in the rough from Treasure Gems and Coins (clean the 'unsearched' gems yourself!).
Thank you Ama for inspiring me to study Rocks and Crystals!
Our kindergartner was never interested in writing stories until someone told me about NaNoWriMo: National Novel Writing Month. They have a Young Writer's Program starting at Kindergarten. After looking at their FREE lesson plans, I decided to give it a try. Not only were the lessons easy for a home educator to follow, but they were fun and engaging for my son. Where before he would write only a sentence or two when asked to write a story, after we began the NaNoWriMo lessons, he was averaging at least 30 words a sitting. He LOVED the process of writing, found JOY in writing independently and was THRILLED to narrate his own words.
Our son completed the first draft of his first novel today. We were all excited to hear him read it from beginning to end. While we will be reworking and improving on the draft for the rest of the month, it is wonderful to see how his writing has developed in less than a month.
Here is his first draft of his novel, entitled Chisel and Fluffy. Hope you enjoy the short novel too!
More information on the published novel here. You can buy the published novel on Amazon too!
I wondered why our son never liked LEGOs. Well, it was the way I was presenting it. Instead of "here are LEGOs, go PLAY!", he much prefers the "here is a problem, let's solve it!" We recently invested in the Duplo Early Simple Machines Homeschool Pack... and our son has LOVED the activities. In the above video, he learned how to build an ice hockey player and learned how distance affects accuracy and how weight affects distance. Lots of fun!
After we 'studied' Johnny Depp, my son really wanted to get to know Christopher Reeve. Here is his recent display for his Night of Notables project on the actor who played Superman.
Christopher Reeve
(25th September 1952
- 10th October 2004)
Christopher Reeve acted as Superman four times. Later
in his life, he was paralyzed after a horse jumping accident. He didn't
feel like Superman anymore but he didn't give up and he even kept on acting.
Growing up he was also an athlete and a scholar.
My Favorite Quote by
Christopher Reeve
“What I do is based on powers we all have inside
us; the ability to endure; the ability to love, to carry on, to make the best
of what we have - and you don't have to be a "Superman" to do it.”
We have been using Moving Beyond the Page as a supplement for a year now and we really do enjoy it. My son especially enjoys the Final Projects. Although the workbook is paper-based, we have decided to re-create them on the computer. Our son thinks it is a lot of fun - especially when he gets to tell me what to type and hear his own voice on the recording! This is our son's very first Power Point presentation, which we spent about 2 hours working on today and yesterday. We're both still learning... he is learning what Power Point is and I'm trying to teach him how to use it. It would be nice to have some cool visual effects later on. But for now, I'm glad he enjoyed creating his First Nature Guide on the computer!
Today ends our first week of official homeschooling. It is nice to end it with my son working with pride.
We just finished reading Horrible Science's Space, Stars and Slimy Aliens, but our journey through our Solar System didn't end there. We also just discovered Toontastic, a fantastic app for kids to create their own stories. So, with a lot of extra time on our hands on holiday, my son decided to create a cartoon about our Solar System!
Our son has always had rhythm. As a baby, he used to drum as soon as he woke up in the morning - mostly putting tangles in my hair or giving me a mini-massage on my back. He doesn't do that anymore. These days, when he does find a new beat, he goes to his real drum set... and I get to dance and sing and jam with him.